Proficiency Image Profile

“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.”

Helen Keller

“Success is not a doorway it’s a stairway.”

Dottie Walters

The Language of dress and color

Proficiency is a highly professional and efficient profile that is people-oriented as well as precise and detail-oriented.  They want to project an image of success, prosperity and confidence.  In order to do this, a professional wardrobe of suits & power colors such as navy, black, gray, burgundy, white, and red will send that message.

        A clean, neat look with simple accessories with a touch of prosperity and rich fabrics project the successful look you are after.  You are thoughtful of every detail in your wardrobe, from color coordination, design, and style, and fit.  You want to look appropriate for every occasion.  For casual wear, the same professional look is projected.  You understand that you never get a second chance to make a first impression!  

The Power of Winning is Yours Today!

Romance, Dating, and Marriage

You are a take-charge person who is highly competitive as well as efficient and creative in your personal relationships.  Your image base of enthusiasm and precision makes it a real challenge for you to find the right personal relationship because you have high standards.  Integrity, efficiency, work ethics, and prestigious status attract you to the opposite sex.  You want to be involved with a security professional or a person who is extremely supportive of you and your many projects.  The sky’s the limit and you need a relationship that will contribute to your success.  Your highly competitive nature wants to be the “boss” in a relationship so you need to realize no profile likes a bossy, domineering relationship.  Arguing, “I’m right and your wrong” will be the downfall of a proficiency profile if you don’t learn to temper your anger, jealousy & criticism.  Accomplishing your financial tasks and projects is a top priority.  What good is it if you don’t find true love in your life?  All the money and power in the world doesn’t make up for a loss of love in your life.

        You are very well educated, factual, successful, creative, and a perfectionist.  This can be a real challenge for your loved one to deal with or live with, because of your demand for perfection, attention, and energy from your relationship.

        You are very creative, and full of high energy when it comes to being creative and a perfectionist with your intimate moments and with dating.  Lots of foreplay and romance in your relationship is very important.  The cards, backrubs, flowers, and creative dating are your forte.  You enjoy social occasions and you require a partner with excellent social and people skills.  The attractiveness and the image of your partner is very important to you.  You feel others will judge you by the company you keep.  So your motto is “Be Picky”

Tips to help you reach your full potential with that winning profile:

1. Be less critical-discover how to give loving, thoughtful criticism.
2. Give more love appreciation and recognition to your loved one.
3. Temper your jealousy.
4. Enjoy your life more and be more flexible and less rigid.
5. Realize not everyone is perfect including you.
6. Surround yourself with positive, caring individuals who have a high emotional IQ.
   1. Mood management
   2. High self-esteem
   3. People skills
   4. Social skills
   5. Empathy

You are a real catch for that ideal someone, but your challenge will be learning to live with another person and in finding someone that will meet your high standards in life.  

Go with the flow; increase your ability to live your life more freely.  Let go and let love come in through your intuitive feelings.  Follow your heart more and the love you desire will be at your door.

Parenting

Parenting is a serious responsibility to you.  You have a great desire to help your children discover their full potential.  Your drive, ambition, and enthusiasm for your children’s potential are a top priority in your life.  Your support, dedication, and creativity are inspiring to your children.  Your example of working with multiple projects encourages your children to set goals.  Teaching your children to fulfill their dreams and to state their mission in life for success and happiness is a rewarding experience for you.

        Make sure you continue to give positive reinforcement for their strengths instead of concentrating on their weaknesses.  You are a perfectionist, which can repel instead of attracting your children to you.  Resentment and hostility can develop with your children if you don’t temper your demands and frustrations.

        Tips for improving your parent/child relationship:

1. Take more time to inspire and listen to the emotional needs of your children without being too critical.
2. Give more positive recognition and appreciation.
3. Be less demanding!
4. Set a good example with people you deal with of tolerance and forgiveness.  Don’t harbor resentment and jealousy.
5. Listen to motivational tapes and books with your children.
6. Let your children discover their full potential with their intuitive feelings.  Encourage them to follow their heart.
7. Don’t sweat the small stuff, it's only small stuff!
8. Mood management is paramount for their success.

Your example of controlling your anger, moods, and irritability is extremely important, in building your children's self-confidence and self-esteem.  They are your little mirrors and what goes around comes around!

You lead your children by your example.  Your leadership, qualities, and perseverance in life will serve as a shining example to them.   Keep up the good work!

Political Image Profile

“Life is the move you see through your own unique eyes. It makes little difference what’s happening out there. It’s how you take it that counts.”

Denis Waitley

The Language of dress and color

You love parties! So bring on the glamour and glitz! You never get a second chance to make a first impression so it’s vital to look your best. You are a genuine people lover that thrives on social activities. It’s most important for you to dress to perfection. From head to toe, your fashion flare is one that leaves a lasting impression for any occasion; you love to shop till you drop. You have a sense of style, color coordination, and fashion savvy. You love the glamorous look and to stand out in a crowd. You love entertaining so you have quite a few special entertainment outfits. You enjoy almost everything life has to offer when it comes to a wardrobe. Fashion trends you live by, and you project a look of fashion, success, and prosperity.

    Bright dramatic colors such as black, white, red, royal blue, and fuchsia are some of your favorites. For the evening you love black with a glitzy glamorous effect in earrings and all accessories. 

    Leopard and dramatic prints and high-quality fabrics are of great interest to you. You have discovered in life that if you “Makeup, dress up you’ll move up.” You are definitely a trendsetter in fashion and you love it!

    A political man has a sense of style also with his wardrobe and color coordination. You always project an image that’s well-groomed, sharp, and successful, with a touch of class. You definitely enjoy your wardrobe planning and you make sure that it projects image prosperity, even if you have to fake it, till you make it!

Romance, Dating, and Marriage

You are a people lover and a social activist. You are the life of the party or you find yourself planning the party! You’d make a great event planner because you are so organized, enthusiastic, and full of life! You’ve really got it all together when it comes to social skills, people skills, and empathy for others.

    You are people smart and you have a high emotional IQ! Because you rate high on the Emotional IQ scale, you have a difficult time sometimes finding a partner who meets your high standards.

    You want to find that special someone but you want it all! Your list of potential prospects in dating, romance, and marriage better be:

1. Well-groomed, sharp, neat attraction
2. Fun to be with a sense of humor 
3. Positive attitude and exciting
4. Enjoys the limelight
5. Specially poised and polite
6. Active in life, sports, civil minded, dance, sing, and laugh
7. Be affectionate, passionate, loving, and romantic. “Lots of touching and foreplay!
8. Be people smart 
9. Be exciting and enthusiastic!
10. Be a best friend
11. Be trustworthy and dependable!
12. Be sensitive to your needs

You need a partner who can say yes to most of the statements above to truly be happy. You have lots to give with your enthusiasm, zest for living, and you are attracted to that same energy in a romantic partner. 

    You are definitely a profile that anyone would like to date, but remember your success in dating is not finding a person, but in finding the right person! Don’t settle for anything less. You’re deserving of the best life has to offer!

    You are a profile who is very verbal and opinionated. Make sure you temper your words at times when you feel frustrated. You are highly sensitive and caring and sometimes need to develop more patience with others that might offend others. Don’t be too critical or too much of a perfectionist because most people haven’t experienced the great school in life you’ve experienced. You probably had fantastic parents!

To avoid criticism:

1. Do anything
2. Say anything
3. Be anything

Recognition and having a partner who compliments you on your many creative talents daily will score high on your priority list. In your relationships, you deserve a positive harmonious environment. 

    Too much criticism or insensitivity in your relationships will destroy that loving feeling and will cause you much sorrow. Joy, happiness, and a loving relationship are what you desire and deserve! So don’t give up and remember your intuitive feelings about people will take you far in this life.

    Remember, if you don’t go within, you’ll go without!

Parenting

You are a very loving, sensitive nurturing parent! You could write a book on parenting because you lead with your heart and you follow through with your children on the detail. 

    Your enthusiastic positive attitude wins approval from your children. The positive recognition you give your children creates an environment that builds confidence and harmony in your home.

    Teaching your children discipline is also a strong point you have, at being a parent. Your positive reinforcement in discipline is one thing you are conscious about. Most parents have a difficult time with constructive criticism but you shine in that area.

    You are great as your children’s coach in life. You love encouraging them to succeed in life by developing their many talents. Your children love your social skills and family event planning. They love also the great parties and fun you create for them.

    Because of your enthusiastic, precise nature, you sometimes have your highs and loves. Don’t be too critical of others in front of your children or they will develop a negative approach towards those people. 

    Always keep your positive attitude and high Emotional IQ. You have the potential to create Outstanding Offspring! 

    Your sensitivity and love you show others will be a shining light to your children. The role of being a parent you take very seriously and you are deeply committed to your children’s success.

      Stress integrity and sincerity in your role as a parent because sometimes a political can be somewhat “two-faced” in a situation. Make sure your children always see you in a truthful manner. Political can have the tendency to not always show the public their true self because of their great talent of being political!

    “All in All, Political have it all!”

Politicals are great conversationalists and they need to develop the talent of effective listening with your lovable children!

Human Relations Image Profile

“Winners develop a habit of doing the things losers don’t like to do.”

Paul Oelrich

“Love is letting go of fear.”

Dr. Gerald Jampolsky

The Language of Dress and Color

You’re a people lover and relationships you value most.  To attract more people to you in your life, you choose colors that are bright, high fashion, and friendly.  Royal blue, red, and white are frequently used.  Peach, off-white, and navy blue are also colors used quite often.  Your friendliness and social poise is a compliment to any party or social event.  You dress to look appropriate but stylish with a fashion flair.  Black is used but not as often as navy.  Black is more threatening to people and you would prefer earth tones for comfortable, relaxed gatherings & fashion colors such as red, white, navy are used for your flamboyant occasions.  You dress professionally but not too overpowering.  You like to project a look of confidence, friendliness, success, comfort, and conservatism with a fashion flair.  

Romance, Dating & Marriage

You have been given the title Human Relations for a reason.  You are a person who loves life and people and despises conflict and manipulation.  Relationships are the most important thing to you and you have a great talent for social poise and public relations.  You win friends easily because of your easygoing nature and strong people skills.  You are talented in attracting the opposite sex because of your popularity and sense of intuitive people skills.  You are a fun, lovable person who seeks a positive fun-loving environment.  You judge relationships by how much fun you have as well as their knowledge of social and people skills.  You’re enthusiastic in relationships but you often have your conservative moments.  You’re a great listener and you have a profile that is always easy to get along with. 

Conflict in a relationship is something you like to avoid so it’s imperative that you learn how to communicate in times of controlling, dominating individuals.  Develop an attitude that expresses emotional honesty.  Don’t hold your feelings in, where it will later hurt the relationship.  Don’t give the silent treatment.  Express yourself daily on how you truly feel. 

Your patience in a relationship and caring attitude bring your loved one into your arms frequently. You are truly a people lover; deserving the best life has to offer.  Your selfless attitude attracts others very easily, so beware of being taken advantage of by controlling, aggressive individuals.  Speak your mind and feel fortunate that your Human Relations Profile is a profile that will never lack love and romance because you are a giver, not a taker.

Power and money to you is not as important as having multitudes of people loving and caring about you.  Make sure you have a positive, fun-loving partner or you will have the conflict of being in the wrong environment that will kill your love.  At times you can be moody and temperamental with your loved ones because of your impatience.  Whining and the “Poor Me” syndrome can show its ugly face at times.  

Sincerity in a relationship is important to you.  Your world is your honor and makes sure you have a partner who is also skilled in reliability and with people.

Procrastination is frequently an issue you find challenging in your relationships.  You have the tendency to put off what you can do today.  All in all your profile has the talent of loving and of succeeding in your Human Relationships.  You are compatible with all profiles because of your enthusiastic side and your side of conservatism.

Success tips for Human Relations

1. Don’t get in a rut! Expand your knowledge for great conversation
2. Be more aggressive and goal-oriented
3. Don’t be moody or temper-mental
4. Work on patience
5. Don’t procrastinate

Parenting

The human relations profile is a natural at being a parent. Parenting skills such as empathy, people skills, and social skills help a human relations profile relate to their offspring. Your children love to be with you because of your ability to attract friends and your talent for entertaining. You have the ability to make everyone feel warm and cozy at any gathering. You’re empathetic attitude and hospitality towards your children's friends are deserving of their loyalty, trust, and admiration. You are a nurturer and you are very sensitive and proactive in the lives of your children. You enjoy being actively involved in their extracurricular activities. You are a supporter and confidant for your loved ones. You have great listening skills, which enable your relationship with your children to grow. You enjoy a harmonious environment and so conflict within the family can cause you to become oblivious and somewhat naive. You prefer not to have to discipline or confront a negative situation. Following through and taking disciplinary actions needs to be more of a priority in order to be more effective as a parent. Discover how to be more direct in confronting a negative environment with your children. Don’t procrastinate in dealing with disciplinary actions. You need to take time in teaching your children correct principles. 

There are three things that make successful children:

1. Attitude
2. Attitude
3. Attitude

Your thoughtful, compassionate attitude can make you an easy target for your children to take advantage of you.

1. Be persistent
2. Be Direct
3. Follow through and don’t procrastinate

Your children will learn to truly love and be happy through your example. Your attitude of love, empathy, and compassion will create an environment your children will succeed in and will bring you much joy and satisfaction.

Control Image Profile

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters,

 compared to what lies within us.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Language of Dress and Color

A control profile is one of the most powerful, authoritative profiles.  They express this through their way of dress and the colors they choose.  They select a wardrobe that projects confidence success and prosperity.  Dark colors such as black, navy, white, burgundy, gray, and red are the colors that project this image.  Controls have two distinct images; a powerful, professional image and a glamorous, creative, and confident image.  Your creativity depends on your lifestyle.  Extreme high fashion to the ultimate professional image fits your control profile.  You have it all together inside and out.  Your image is meticulously planned, organized and you definitely understand the strength in dressing for success.  You truly believe that you never get a second chance to make a first impression!

Romance, Dating, and Marriage

How many times have you said to yourself “I get along great with people as long as they do want I want them to do?”  You chuckle to yourself because most control profiles are very talented, creative, confident, and powerful and you know what your strengths and weaknesses are in a romantic relationship. Most controls don’t like to see themselves as controlling others in a relationship, through manipulation.  You constantly strive to protect yourself from being “Fenced in” controlled, hurt, or manipulated by others.  Yet your weakness is just that.  You fear control and yet you want to control others.  You can develop the poise of not being so dominant or manipulative through great soul searching.  Usually, control profiles are very driven and goal-oriented.  They seek lifestyles of prestige authority and prosperity.  Their drive and ambitions win them great positions of authority such as CEO, President, Entrepreneur, millionaire, or even Billionaire. Your challenge in life is learning to let go and truly love intensely. You protect your emotional love and are careful in choosing your romantic partner in life.  Because of past experiences in life, you fear being taken advantage of by others.  You often find yourself falling into relationships for convenience, monetary value, a lifestyle rather than deep emotional love.  A control profile actually controls their love in a relationship.  One of your struggles in a relationship is discovering how to balance your career, your love life, and making a commitment.  You can be a workaholic and you fight with yourself to find time for a romantic relationship.  You control your passion and affection and you need to learn to be consistent.  Sometimes you are affectionate and sometimes you can be aloof and cold. Read the book, “Men from Mars-Women from Venus”.  You are a leader, aggressive and exciting in a relationship because you are very intelligent, creative, and sexy.  Your challenge is not in attracting the right person it’s in keeping that right person.  You have to learn to keep romance in your relationship by touching more, listening more, and complimenting your spouse or partner more.  You need to discover the joy of deeply loving your partner and forgetting your pressures at business.  “Let go and let love come in.  Learn to be less selfish and more attentive and thoughtful with gifts from the heart.   (a backrub, romantic card, etc.) Express your love such as “I love you” daily even if you don’t feel like it.  Expressing your love, appreciation, and recognition for your partner’s actions, it will deepen the love you’ve always wanted.  In order to keep the right person you get to do the following;

1. Be less critical
2. Be more affectionate 
3. Complement and express your love more daily
4. Communicate without raising your voice or showing anger. Controls have to also learn to take constructive criticism without taking offense. Don’t leave the room in your angry moments or go into your cave

Discover the joy of working things out through listening to your partner’s grievances without getting up and walking out or hanging up the phone.  Learning to control your anger and discovering the joy that comes through effective communication will bring you true love and happiness.  Success in your romantic relationship will come if you make it a priority.  You are successful as a control profile but most controls put money and work first, before their personal relationships.  Remember: make romance a priority and you’ll get all the love you need.

In your intimate moments learn to please your partner more than yourself.  Romantic music, cards, gifts, and longer foreplay, candlelight and a backrub for your partner would make the occasion a night to remember.  Remember: “You get what you give” Most control profiles win the honor of great prestige power, and authority in life, but too often through the hard knocks in life, (multiple relationships and divorce) they soon discover what really brings true happiness and joy.  Materialism and shallow relationships become boring to you in time.  Make sure the partner you select is stimulating with conversation, appearance, lifestyle, and depth of character.  You get bored easily so be selective in picking your romantic relationship.  Loyalty will be a challenge to you in your relationship if you’re not stimulated in your intimate moments, spiritually, physically, and intellectually.  

The sky’s the limit for you in life but true love can be your most desired conquest!  Learn to love unconditionally.  Your profile, most compatible in life will be another control, activity, human relations, or political profile.  An activity profile will be the most stimulating profile and long-lasting one for you.

If you’re in love with a control profile:

Tips

    1.   Don’t become longwinded

        (Patience is not their virtue)

    2.   Don’t repeat yourself too much in conversation

    3.   Be stimulating in business, spirituality, socially and physically 

4.   Teach them to relax more and have more fun!

1. Be organized and business-minded

Parenting

Control profiles make excellent parents if they don’t become to critical, controlling and overbearing.  Your children will admire your strength of character and work ethics.  To be truly effective with your children here are a few important tips:

1. Don’t lecture, communicate with effective listening skills
2. Don’t be controlling and overbearing 
3. Don’t be too critical
4. Develop patience 
5. Give unconditional love
6. Temper your anger with loving thoughts
7. Give more consideration to their feelings
8. Give more time
9. Have more fun
10. Give more recognition and appreciation

Your outstanding leadership qualities will be greatly appreciated by your children but remember, “No success can compensate for failure in the home”

Did you know that a child laughs 7 ½ times per hour and smiles 45 times per hour?

Our children are our greatest teachers.

A control profile needs to take time every day to smile and laugh with their children. Set an example, that life has balance between carrier and family.  Also show them the difference between work and fun. Do Both!

Control Image Profile

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters,

 compared to what lies within us.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Language of Dress and Color

A control profile is one of the most powerful, authoritative profiles.  They express this through their dress and colors they choose.  They select a wardrobe that projects confidence success and prosperity.  Dark colors such as black, navy, white, burgundy, gray, and red are the colors that project this image.  Controls have two distinct images; a powerful, professional image and a glamorous, creative, and confident image.  Your creativity depends on your lifestyle.  Extreme high fashion to the ultimate professional image fits your control profile.  You have it all together inside and out.  Your image is meticulously planned, organized and you definitely understand the strength in dressing for success.  You truly believe that you never get a second chance to make a first impression!

Romance, Dating, and Marriage

How many times have you said to yourself “I get along great with people as long as they do want I want them to do?”  You chuckle to yourself because most control profiles are very talented, creative, confident, and powerful and you know what your strengths and weaknesses are in a romantic relationship. Most controls don’t like to see themselves as controlling others in a relationship, through manipulation.  You constantly strive to protect yourself from being “Fenced in” controlled, hurt, or manipulated by others.  Yet your weakness is just that.  You fear control and yet you want to control others.  You can develop the poise of not being so dominant or manipulative through great soul searching.  Usually, control profiles are very driven and goal-oriented.  They seek lifestyles of prestige authority and prosperity.  Their drive and ambitions win them great positions of authority such as CEO, President, Entrepreneur, millionaire, or even Billionaire. Your challenge in life is learning to let go and truly love intensely. You protect your emotional love and are careful in choosing your romantic partner in life.  Because of past experiences in life, you fear being taken advantage of by others.  You often find yourself falling into relationships for convenience, monetary value, a lifestyle rather than deep emotional love.  A control profile actually controls their love in a relationship.  One of your struggles in a relationship is discovering how to balance your career, your love life, and making a commitment.  You can be a workaholic and you fight with yourself to find time for a romantic relationship.  You control your passion and affection and you need to learn to be consistent.  Sometimes you are affectionate and sometimes you can be aloof and cold. Read the book, “Men from Mars-Women from Venus”.  You are a leader, aggressive and exciting in a relationship because you are very intelligent, creative, and sexy.  Your challenge is not in attracting the right person it’s in keeping that right person.  You have to learn to keep romance in your relationship by touching more, listening more, and complimenting your spouse or partner more.  You need to discover the joy of deeply loving your partner and forgetting your pressures at business.  “Let go and let love come in.  Learn to be less selfish and more attentive and thoughtful with gifts from the heart.   (a backrub, romantic card, etc.) Express your love such as “I love you” daily even if you don’t feel like it.  Expressing your love, appreciation, and recognition for your partner’s actions, it will deepen the love you’ve always wanted.  In order to keep the right person you get to do the following;

1. Be less critical
2. Be more affectionate 
3. Complement and express your love more daily
4. Communicate without raising your voice or showing anger. Controls have to also learn to take constructive criticism without taking offense. Don’t leave the room in your angry moments or go into your cave

Discover the joy of working things out through listening to your partner’s grievances without getting up and walking out or hanging up the phone.  Learning to control your anger and discovering the joy that comes through effective communication will bring you true love and happiness.  Success in your romantic relationship will come if you make it a priority.  You are successful as a control profile but most controls put money and work first, before their personal relationships.  Remember: make romance a priority and you’ll get all the love you need.

In your intimate moments learn to please your partner more than yourself.  Romantic music, cards, gifts, and longer foreplay, candlelight, and a backrub for your partner would make the occasion a night to remember.  Remember: “You get what you give” Most control profiles win the honor of great prestige power, and authority in life, but too often through the hard knocks in life, (multiple relationships and divorce) they soon discover what really brings true happiness and joy.  Materialism and shallow relationships become boring to you in time.  Make sure the partner you select is stimulating with conversation, appearance, lifestyle, and depth of character.  You get bored easily so be selective in picking your romantic relationship.  Loyalty will be a challenge to you in your relationship if you’re not stimulated in your intimate moments, spiritually, physically, and intellectually.  

The sky’s the limit for you in life but true love can be your most desired conquest!  Learn to love unconditionally.  Your profile, most compatible in life will be another control, activity, human relations, or political profile.  An activity profile will be the most stimulating profile and long-lasting one for you.

If you’re in love with a control profile:

Tips

    1.   Don’t become longwinded

        (Patience is not their virtue)

    2.   Don’t repeat yourself too much in conversation

    3.   Be stimulating in business, spirituality, socially and physically 

4.   Teach them to relax more and have more fun!

1. Be organized and business-minded

Parenting

Control profiles make excellent parents if they don’t become too critical, controlling, and overbearing.  Your children will admire your strength of character and work ethic.  To be truly effective with your children here are a few important tips:

1. Don’t lecture, communicate with effective listening skills
2. Don’t be controlling and overbearing 
3. Don’t be too critical
4. Develop patience 
5. Give unconditional love
6. Temper your anger with loving thoughts
7. Give more consideration to their feelings
8. Give more time
9. Have more fun
10. Give more recognition and appreciation

Your outstanding leadership qualities will be greatly appreciated by your children but remember, “No success can compensate for failure in the home”

Did you know that a child laughs 7 ½ times per hour and smiles 45 times per hour?

Our children are our greatest teachers.

A control profile needs to take time every day to smile and laugh with their children. Set an example, that life has a balance between carrier and family.  Also, show them the difference between work and fun. Do Both!